If it seems like it has been a while since I wrote a “Ten Things” post,[1] that’s because it has been! I have been out on the road for most of October and November speaking at conferences, off-sites, street corners, church pulpits, casinos, bus stations, or wherever they will have me. One thing I enjoy about doing this (other than the glamor of flying)[2] is getting to meet so many in-house lawyers and talking about what is on their minds. And that is where the inspiration for today’s post comes from. While on the road, I heard from many people that one of the hardest parts of their job is “dealing” with business executives, from front-line managers all the way up to the C-Suite. In particular, people asked me why it is such a chore to get executives to focus on legal issues or take legal issues as important problems to solve vs. something that the lawyers are “dealing with” down in the basement but somehow requires them to spend part of their limited time helping with: “Why can’t you just make it go away and stop bothering me?” I get it. I had similar problems when I was starting out as an in-house lawyer and when I was general counsel, i.e., it never changed. I just got better at dealing with it. How? Because I spent a lot of time thinking about the best way to make an impact with my business colleagues. And, over time, I figured out a number of things I could do to solve what is, apparently, still a very common problem even here in 2025.
It will come as no surprise that it starts with understanding that working with business executives as an in-house lawyer is different than working with them as outside counsel. And, for those who arrive at the in-house world from a law firm, understanding that you are not the center of the universe. If you are lucky, you may be the demi-planet Pluto or a large asteroid. For many, this is a shock to the system, and some never recover or adapt. We call those people former in-house lawyers (or really bad ones). Second, and even more importantly, being successful at it requires a change in tactics and expectations. I have compared the process to visiting the island of the “Wild Things.”[3] And like Max, you must prepare yourself for a wild rumpus! So brace yourself as this edition of “Ten Things” discusses how to best deal with the Wild Things… uh, I mean business executives:

